Humanized Care (Nature, Medicine and Society): shikyu-chan

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2011年6月27日月曜日

© The Self-relaxation Practice with Shikyu-chan

A touch sensitivity or tactition it is the first among fife life sensations what an embryo of 12 weeks old obtains in the development progress. That meant each of us had the very first experience to communicate with the world by touching the inner uterus wall. Then we had the first response from the world by being touched back. Feeling the uterus wall discovers for us that there is exists the World and we realized that stay here not alone.

Physiology of touch-relaxation effect (see more)

When somebody touches us, there's pressure pushing on the skin at the point of contact. And just under the skin are pressure receptors called "Pacinian corpuscles. They receive pressure stimulation, and the pressure receptors send a signal to the brain. A touch activates the brain’s orbitofrontal cortex, which is linked to feelings of reward and compassion. Touch signals safety and trust, it soothes. Basic warm touch calms cardiovascular stress. It activates the body’s vagus nerve (n. vagus), one of the 12 cranial nerves in the brain, which in turn slows the heart and decreases the production of stress hormones including cortisol (hydrocortisone). The same time it triggers release of oxytocin, AKA “the love hormone” or "cuddle hormone", what makes feel more trusting and connected.(Dr. Dacher Keltner, Dr. Matt Hertenstein and Dr.Tiffany Field).

Why to hold something is good for relaxation?

When we touch something it also “touches” us. Our body is balancing a temperature with something or someone during holding or hugging it. Then the phenomenal effect arises: our spatial sensation change and our inner space increase. Now “we” are bigger on the size of the subject or object that we interact with. The walls of our private box move aside and we are getting opener to the Universe.

A benefit of this practice is an ability to be less vulnerable, more adoptable and accept easier any hard situations what we face each day. The touch relaxation practice turns us from a “hard nut” what can be crushed down by any powerful blow, to a “soft ball”, what just reflect it and back to previous condition very next time.

We recommend the Self-relaxation Practice with Shikyu-chan © for any people under any life circumstances.

If you are a hard-working man or business-woman, busy housewife and mother, to-mush-learning student and stay by yourself grandparent; you are far away from your close person and relative, you feel lonely – © The Self-relaxation Practice with Shikyu-chan is match to you.

If you are pregnant, pick Shikyu-chan yourself or ask you doctor or midwife how to practice with.

Obstetricians, midwifes and nurses may suggest
© The Self-relaxation Practice with
Shikyu-chan for:

1. pregnant women, it helps them to develop connection to their baby. To activate a touch sensation helps to raise a positive feeling for baby’s movement into the womb. That practice establishes inner communication in the way mother-baby without an interruption from external world. A flow of contradictory Information will not able to put pregnant woman to worry and panic condition;

2. women in labor, it helps them to keep their mind under control during the labor pain, reminds them to keep doing their “work”. Holding the Shikyu-chan imitates for woman in labor her partner’s hand, what is really supportive in that hard time;

3. women after delivery, it help to feel not lonely. During 10 months of pregnancy women was a center of people attention and support, then, after her baby was born, all o them sifted their sights to newborn infant and there are no one hold her hand and share kindness with. © The Self-relaxation Practice with Shikyu-chan simply can give her to feel physical touch and shrink lonely feeling.

4. woman who is going to or trying to get pregnant for while as an infertility treatment method.

Caregivers may suggest © The Self-relaxation Practice with Shikyu-chan for people in grief after lost their loved one, patient who suffer with pain and in termination stage. In all of these physical and mental conditions to feel someone’s “hand” in own palm is very supportive.

How to practice

There is no any especial way to practice. Just softly squeeze the Shikyu-chan in your palm for 30 – 60 minutes. During this time try do not think about anything in particular.

Some people who practice the Self-relaxation with Shikyu-chan image themselves a womb what embraces and accepts of fragile embryo – Shikyu-chan.

2011年5月25日水曜日

The Project べびー福 / Baby-fuku : Donation of used baby's clothing.

We collect used baby's and kid's clothing in sizes from 0 till 3 years old, then provide direct delivery to mothers who live in devastated areas and developing countries.

Also we are truly appreciating small donations what covers a delivery cost and a new baby goods purchase.

A used baby clothing: some people will say: “It is just a trash”, some people think: “It is smart way to reuse it”, but for some of people it could very supportive.

Our babies have a magic feature: they grow up as yeast dough. Just couple months ago your baby was born and now you need to have a shopping, perhaps third times already.
How about those stuffs what have been used less than five times only?
Should its be sent to trash box?
We do not think so and there are several reasons, why:

First of all, if they still look like as new and in good quality it better to be reuse. Japanese language has very meaningful word: “mottainai”, what laterally “sad for waste of something”. In reality, to throw almost not used clothing out IS mottainai. We suggest: do not do like this.

Then, a family budget could be rescue by getting used baby clothing approach. To get a dozen new T-shirts and panties each month is really could crush a financial stability even a wealthy people.

The most important to understand, then at any time and any part of our world can happen difficulties, troubles or even a disaster, That can heard each individual and turn persons to change their life style and needs. Furthermore, for some of people daily surviving is their life style for many years. Many of these people are mothers. Each day in the motherhood they have to manage ways and sources to obtain food and clothes for their baby. To have some shirts, panties, hats and shoes as a gift could be supportive a lot.

To donate used clothing is absolutely not a bad manner, it is smart way to conserve resources and support people in their needs.

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『べびー福』は、０歳から３歳までの子供服を集め、発展途上国や災害地の子供たちへ届けるプロジェクトです。

人によっては「そんなの、ゴミ同然。そんなものを人にあげるなんて。」と思うかもしれません。
でも中には「子供服を使い回すのは、賢い活用法！！」と思う方もいるでしょう。

０歳から３歳までの子供たちは私たちが予測もつかない様なスピートで成長します。
特に最初の１ヶ月では、出生時の体重の1.5倍も大きくなるのです！！
お祝いでもらったおしゃれ着が、５回も袖を通さないうちに小さくなってしまった。。。なんてことも。
また、外出機会の少ない月齢では、洋服の痛みも少なく、靴などは新品同然の物もあるでしょう。

これらを着られなくなったからと言ってゴミ箱に捨ててしまうのはもったいない！！

子供の成長に合わせてサイズのあった洋服を着せることは、子供たちが自由に活発に動き回ることができます。
運動能力や精神的に発達していくためにも、とても大切な事です。
また、お母さんやお父さんも、子供に可愛い洋服を着せる楽しみは育児の疲れを癒す助けになるでしょう。

お金のかかる妊娠、出産、育児です。
しかし、必要不可欠な子供服にかかる費用を削減出来れば、食事や教育などに予算をあてられるでしょう。

古着を活用することは決してマナー違反ではありません。
『服』を賢く活用して、子供、お母さん、お父さんに『福』が届くことを願っています。

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2011年4月14日木曜日

The Shikyu-chan is a messenger.

This character, the Shikyu-chan is already famous. It is 49 mm at length and very comfortable to be hanged up on a cell phone or a bag, as initially it became popular in Japan, then around the world.

Even it looks like as a pretty toy, what safe to be named “kawaii” in Japanese language, but basically it is really more. The Shikyu-chan is a messenger.

The messenger of:

- acceptance of others unique differences,

- sympathy,

- kindness,

- heart warmth,

- support and care,

- soul affinity.

The Shikyu-chan is the symbol of acceptance and the messenger of our kindness and warmth.

So small cute kawaii item is caring an important message what needs to be shared, isn’t it wonderful?!

Get the Shikyu-chan and give it to your soul mate, then this person will be connected to you and feels your care and participation when will hold the Shikyu-chan in the palm. She or he will never be lonely any more, but with you.

The Shikyu-chan is a perfect gift for near people:

- your friends or classmates;

- boy and girlfriend;

- your life partner;

- your kids;

- your parents and grand-parents,

with your acceptance of other’s unique differences, sympathy, soul affinity, kindness, support and care.

The Shikyu-chan is an appropriate gift for people in sorrow after their loss of lowed one:

- parents who lose their unborn or newborn baby;

- parents who lose tragically their kid;

- woman who keeps hope to get her own baby;

- people who lose their life partner, parents or relatives;

- owner who lose their lovely pet,

with your understanding, heart warmth, support and care, willingness to share their pain with.

2011年4月6日水曜日

Womb Conscious: why a womb?! Сознание материнского лона © Почему материнское лоно?

Сознание материнского лона ©

Матка (материнское лоно) это единственный уникальный орган, который работает не на физиологические нужды собственного организма.

Каждый живой организм имеет ряд жизненно необходимых систем, наличие которых критично для данного конкретного организма, но лишь репродуктивная система существует для другого организма. Эта система способна создавать и вынашивать другой живой организм.

Только женский организм наделен этим специфическим органом. Лишь жеские особи способны исполнять эту великую обязанность: передавать биологическую информацию от предыдущих поколеий к потомкам. Эта важнейшая миссия может быть выполнена лишь женским организмом и это величайший дар вселенной: способность создать и выносить новую жизнь. Можно заметить схожесть с тем, на что «способна» и наша земля, которая забоится о нас, наших родителях и будет заботися о наших детях.

Разве может эта важнейшая миссия быть вполнена без повышенного внимания и бережной заботы о новом растущем организме внутри? Матка – тот орган, что способен делать такую работу превосходно.

Основное в заботе о растущем организме, это поощрение и поддержка, а не наложение ограничений на нужды и активность этого организма. Другими словами, матка способна предостаить плоду возможность делать все, что он «хочет» в процессе роста и развития внутри нее. Так, если подвижность плода активизируется по каким-либо физиологическим причинам, то и внутренний объем маточного пространства увеличивается. И наоборот, матка способна сокращать внутренний объем, как бы обнимая плод, в период ухудшения его физиологического состояния.

Можно сказать, что матка, как часть тела матери, находится в эффективном взаимодействии с новым растущим организмом внутри. На самом деле оба: матка и плод, поддерживают свою активность с определенной степенью свободы и не пересекают ту черту, когда эта активность может превратиться во взаимно вредящую как плоду так и организму матери.

Это прекрасный пример взаимного уважения и кооперации двух абсолютно разных биологических объеков:

1) плода (эмбриона), даже в случае его полной чужеродности материнскому организму при столь неестественном процессе как суррогатное материнство, и

2) материнского лона (матки).

Проще говоря, материнское лоно дает заботу, тепло, физическую защиту и самое важное ощущение: ты не одинок.

Отчего этот биологический феномен не может являться прекрасным примером принятия и взаимоуважения к уникальным особеностям каждого из нас в обществе?

Tatiana A. Romanova

2011年3月23日水曜日

the basic natural ways of life development are kindness and care. Could our society follow this?

Share kindness and heart-warmth with your soul mate!

A womb (uterus)

A uterus is unique organ that works not for own body but for another organism.

Each of living organisms obtained a life support system what is crucial for the certain organism’s life, but only a reproductive system exists for other organism. This system is able to create and care on different living organism.

Female’s organism only endow with this special organ. Female only has the great duty to pass the biological information from an ancestry to the next generation. This important mission could be executed by female only. The greatest gift from the Universe is the ability to care on a new life.
This is reminding the Earth what cares on all of us, on ours parents and will do for our children.

How could this great work be done without a sensitive attention and kind treatment of the new growing organism inside? Uterus is able to do this perfectly. When the baby want to be active the uterus increases of internal space for this, when the baby feels not well the uterus embraces of him or her same as the mother will do it later. Uterus gives kindness, warmth, physical protection, and the most important feeling: you are not lonely.

We (society)

People the same as many of animals are social. We can survive alone but cannot live alone. We need relatives, friends, and love one. Unfortunately live is complicated and very often we even in the middle of big city are lonely. Here is no one who is ready to embrace us or just hold our hand in hard time. This is sad, but not hopeless.

Let’s remember how uterus and new life met each other. It was just done and right after that they began to cooperate mutually: not against of each other, but care on each other; not suppress and destroy, but with giving an opportunity for necessary freedom based on each other different needs.

It is clear that the mutual respect and cooperation is the basic natural way of life development. This is the common laws of nature and society and what people should do: just continue to keep it.

Kindness and heart-warmth

These are what each of us need and able to get naturally by keeping our heart open. But yes, life is complicated and someday we have to be separated from our close people by many reasons. How can we feel them when they are not next to as in the certain moment? There is one of solution: we can give to our soul mate the memorable item that will remind of our warmth.

22.03.2011
Tatiana A. Romanova

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